So…What are we doing?
In my little group of friends, we constantly run into the same problem: we can never decide what to do. I’m not talking about homework, projects, work, or anything remotely stressful, we can’t even decide what we want to do for fun.
First, we decide on what we want to do. It takes us about an hour or so, because we have to factor in things like cost, distance, time, and how much ‘work’ our fun activity is. For example, let’s take swimming:
- Swimming involves us all going home to get our respective Speedos and wet suits.
- Swimming requires all of us to shower and change (hopefully individually) before and after the activity.
- Swimming requires all of us to take off our faces and reapply afterwards.
- Swimming is basically an array of moves in a large volume of water either back and forth or around in a close ended shape (usually a rectangle or circle). It appears more like exercise which is more correlated with work than fun.
- All of us are now about 18 and must pay the adult fare. Even though it is still cheaper than many other activities, it doesn’t feel good knowing that some pimply kid gets to pay 2 dollars less than us to do the exact same thing we’re doing just because he was born later. It’s a psychology thing.
As a result, we have never gone swimming together. Ever. A common activity we do choose is watching movies. When we finally make the decision to watch a movie, we then go into what type of movie we want to watch. Action, comedy, or chick flick? Yes, I do, do the occasional chick flick. After that, we decide if we want to watch big screen style, or in the comfort of one of our homes – usually mine because I’m the laziest. I never knew having fun was so much work. I used to think it was just my personality, or perhaps the personality of my friends. But then, the other Friday when we were finishing up our weekly movie search at Rogers Video, I heard one guy say:
” [screw] it, come on! Why do we always take forever to pick a movie? We’ve been here for 25 minutes! Just pick one already!”
I laughed. Hard.
Then yesterday, we took another couple hours to figure out what we wanted to do on a nice Saturday evening. We finally settled on another movie (maybe we should just set that as our default). As the weather was gorgeous and it was the Celebration of Lights fireworks finale, we figured that most people would head out there and so we decided we would take a pass this year and have yet another relaxing night at an air-conditioned movie. However, when we got there, it was packed. Like the inside of a macbook air packed. Top it off, the movie we wanted to watch was sold out (It was Step Brothers, by no means a grammy winner) and the line up for 3 week champion Dark Knight was as long as the wingspan of 20 Yao Mings. I guess everybody thought that everybody else would be at the fireworks and hence went for the more “relaxing” evening. So to sum it up, what I’ve learned this summer vacation is:
1. People are indecisive.
2. People are lazy.
I can’t decide if that’s a good thing or bad thing. I guess I’ll worry about it later.
to anothersamchan.com! My name is Sam and I love social media, technology, and the canucks. If you want to know a little more about me, please click the about link right above this here. If you want to work or discuss something with me, please give me an email at sam@anothersamchan.com and I promise to respond no matter how big or small the fire. I really appreciate you dropping by, so please leave a comment or two to let me know who you are! Cheers :) 


I noticed that my last post regarding coffee caught more attention than normal, with more people dropping their 2 cents than usual so I guess there are a lot of coffee lovers out there…as well as a lot of coffee haters. Actually, I didn’t have a coffee today…and most days I don’t have coffee. As hard as it is to believe (even to myself, since I stereotypically ‘look’ the type of an 